Have you ever been there? Where youโve just purchased the perfect items, made a dazzling outfit, wore your makeup on, but something on the inside just still doesnโt feel whole, doesnโt feel right. What is it then? Well, we can assume, it surely isnโt the size of the blouse or the shade of the blusher, nor the scent of your perfume! You even ironed all your clothes before wearing themโฆ but maybe you, just like so many of us, forgot something more important. The cherry on top.
It's more about how you see yourself, and what exactly you give value to. So here are 4 things that will make you feel good and look gorgeous on the inside before the outside.
Real life is not Instagram feed. Comparing yourself and your life to every post, reel and story you see is hectic.
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Comparisons
Real life is not an Instagram feed. Yet with everything being so exposed on social media, we try to make life as instagrammable as possible. Yes, itโs amazing to post a jaw-dropping picture, itโs cool to seek inspiration from your favorite celebrities and bloggers, but living while running after that to just be like it. To just fit in. That is whatโs not okay. Comparing yourself and your life to every post, reel and story you see is hectic. Sometimes, or actually many times, we even do it unconsciously. So we need to be conscious about it to avoid falling into this endless black hole that just sucks life out of us, making us feel that what we do, what we have, how we lead our lives is just not enough, and it will actually never be enough because weโre comparing our lives to a filtered, unreal, virtual one.
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Confidence
You are not defined by what you purchase or the brands you buy from. You are a special human being just as you are. Having confidence comes from having the right mindset and putting everything in its place. Knowing that you are whole as you are, that buying a new piece is nice, glamming up is amazing, but those are all add-ons to the already perfectly imperfect you. Theyโre never the building blocks of who you really are. Remind yourself of that often. And wear confidence as your best accessory.
Expectations
Sometimes the most pressuring kinds of expectations are not the ones that come from those around you, but the ones you set for yourself. Being so conditional about how you should look, and what you should wear, and unless itโs something like or close enough to these expectations youโd end up feeling disappointed. But why is that? Just enjoy what you have, make a castle out of that sand you own, and stop setting unnecessary high bars for yourself.
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Be the Real You
Heard that a lot, right? Itโs actually easier said than done. To live n your own truth, to do what you love doing. Do you like the trend? Well follow it, be inspired and jump in, you donโt like it? Well just donโt, be your own trend, youโre that cool already. Donโt do something that does not represent you. Be authentic and genuine, just be you. Thatโs unique.
